Wednesday, March 14, 2007
DAD....
My Beloved FATHER passed away on the 8th March 2007 at 8.30am...He left all of us by suprise especially my mum, me n my B...
On the evening of 7th Mar 2007 he was still allright, joking around with my son still..it all happen just immediately after he had his dinner and that was around 9+pm if i remember correctly...my mum just came from teaching my 2 couzins mengaji and my Dad was still eating his dinner...1 of my aunt was also here sending food to my dad as she knows my dad luv this dish...and since he's already eating, she told him to keep it for tomorrow and he said ok...
Immediately after he finishes his meal, we heard him vomitting in the toilet...my mum rushed to the toilet to see what happened...i can hear my mum telling my dad that maybe he ate too much, improper digestion which I also thought it is as it happened to him before...he kept vomitting and vomitting...after he stopped, my mum hold him tight and told him to go to their so she can apply ointment on his stomach and chest to relieve the pain...but Dad kept saying,"Sakit sakit, tak tahan." we kept telling him to lie down as the pain won't go away immediately right...then he vomitted again in the room, not enough time to rush to the toilet...I told him,"Pak, tahanla sikit..baring kejap lagi baikla tu." he kept saying,"telefon ambulance tak tahanla sakit." and because he is the type who really can't tahan sakit, me n my mum thought, give him 2 panadol extra to eat and he might be ok...after eating he said,"Perut bapak sakit antar pegi doctor." So i told my mum, i'll call a cab and bring him to the 24hrs clinic at Tampines as its already 10.30pm. So we told him to change his t-shirt and wear his pants but he said he can't coz his stomach is too painful...We were lucky my aunt is there to help us, so she accompanied my mum to the clinic while i waited at home to look after Fikri.
Mum told me they came back abt 12+am...and before my aunt leave, my Dad told her,"Edot, terima kasihla antar Abang pegi klinik, kau papah aku, terima kasih banyak-banyak. Kalau Abang mati hari ni atau esok, kau maafkan Abang ye."I couldn't take it when my mum told me this. How I wish my husband wasn't working that night so we are able to send him....
After my Aunt left, Mum told Dad to sleep but he can't, he said its still painful so my mum said,"Tahan sikitla, takkan makan terus baik." So he tried lying down.
At 6.15am on 8th March 2007, Mum woke him up to take his medicine again and he did...he even ask for more water as he's thirsty...after taking the medicine, Mum told him to go back to sleep and he did lie down..after that Mum came out of her room and so I asked her what is Dad doing, she said Dad is asleep after taking his medication so I said OK..Told Mum Fikri is already awake and ready to bathe for school. So i got ready for work and left at 7.15am..
After my morning briefing at 8.20am, I was getting ready my desk to start work when my B called my office..I thought thats really early coz he never call me so early especially when he's working on board the ship in JB..So i answered the phone happily but what he said shattered my heart...He said,"B Bapak da meninggal.." I was like,"Ah, Bapak siapa?" He answered,"Your DAD!." I don't know how to react and cried..He told me to call home and speak to Mum..i called home immediately to confirm with my Mum..I even told her to check again, who knows she mite have made a mistake..But she said,"Mak da check, Bapak da takde.."
So i told my boss and my colleague about it and they send me downstairs to get a cab..I was crying all the way in the cab..Couldn't believe that it just happened to me..My beloved DAD has passed away...
When I reached home, my Aunt who lived on the 5th floor is already there..I was lost, don't know what to do or who to call..without any siblings around, i really didn't know what to do..At that time my B was on the way back, just left JB..I was lucky my mum has 10 siblings and they really helped a lot...
Everything was settled and finally Bapak dikebumikan pada jam 2++pm..
My mum fainted downstairs after the bus left..she must be keeping it and not crying that much thats why she couldn't take it anymore...
Ya ALLAH, kau tempatkanla Bapa ku di kalangan orang-orang yg beriman..Kami semua redha kau lebih menyayangi dia..Amin..
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Farhana @| 5:33 PM
Friday, March 02, 2007
Firsy Day In School!!
   Mama took 2 days leave to send my big baby to school...u guys must be wondering why 1st day of school in Mar...the reason is: the school was suppose to be full but in Feb they called and said there is 1 slot for him as 1 kid backed out...so that was to be in Feb BUT Fikri was too sick in Feb, he was diagnosed with virus infection...very high fever 39.6 degrees, vomitting, etc...so dropped the school plan and told the school we'll come in Mar....and here he is on hist 1st & 2nd day of school...it wasn't easy babes...he had a hard time and so do I!!! 1STt DAY: I accompanied him till breakfast and after that I told him I had to work...OFCOURSE he cried but i told his teacher i gotta go and will leave him in her good hands....with a heavy heart i left him crying....:(((...it was sooo heartwrenching. At 1.15pm, I went to fetch him and everyone elsewere having their nap except for him...he was just sitting looking at the puzzles on the table with a teary eye...He was definitely so so happy to see me... 2ND DAY: 2nd day was worse that the 1st one...he didn't want to let go of me...didn't want to go in the music room where all of them assemble in the morning...he was just clinging next to me..i think this is the other side of his papa that he's following (i was told by my mum in law, my husband was a crybaby when he was in school!hehehhehe...)..so when all the kids were suppose to go to their classrooms for breakfast, i told him to get his shoes and walk with his frens but he didn't want as well...still holding my hand...so i have no choice but to follow him for breakfast again....everything was good during breakfast as Mama is right next to him..at that time it was already 9am, 1hr gone...i have an appt at 10am with my Gynae so i really gotta go...after breakfast, they all get ready for playground...so when all of us leave the classroom, i told Teacher Amy i really have to go for my appointment, and she said no worries just leave him with her...so i kiss my baby and go...really go this time...he was crying, screaming "Nak Mama nak Mama"...i have no choice..i turned back once and thats it...sorry baby, Mama have to go....that was really really sad...Immediately i called my B and told him what happened...but today i didn't fetch him as B offered to go to his school...... That was the story of my Fikri's 1st & 2nd day in School....i have some pics to share with all...Enjoy!
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Farhana @| 4:34 PM
Friday, February 23, 2007
Christmas Lunch
 The company gave us half day on 22nd December and we were brought to Kazbar for our Christmas Lunch....the food was not that great but the dancing was not bad...and we got to exchange our christmas gifts there as well....Merry Christmas Everyone!!!
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Farhana @| 3:00 PM
Christmas Party 2006
Hi bloggers, its been so long since i update my blog...me n my bz schedule...cum n take a look at some pics during my company's Christmas Party, the 60's theme....
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Farhana @| 2:45 PM
Sunday, December 24, 2006
Happy 2007!!!!!!!!!
Hello frenzies,the new year is around the corner again!!! Was your 2006 resolution a success??hahahha if not bring forward to 2007...btw, just wanna share the good news with All...I'm Preggie for the 2nd time!!!!!!!!AHHAHAHHA...So C U ALL in 2007!!!!
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Farhana @| 9:32 AM
Monday, December 04, 2006
Lebaran 2006
Hello Bloggers...Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri Maaf Zahir Batin..its been so long since i update my blog..sorilah bz u..will find a time to update again k...c u!!!!
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Farhana @| 11:30 AM
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